I was talking to another user about this the other day and I make a general rule that if one, they don't post anything, then I'm sorry you don't get an accept request from me. Second, if you are new and not referencing anything I posted or my profile correctly then that's an automatic disqualification. I will often tell the person that I'm flattered but out of protection, it makes me uncomfortable and so I decline and I would enjoy getting to know them in the forums first before accepting anything. I guess, it doesnt bother me, but I do feel bad for them and I do say a little prayer that God reveals himself and delivers them from their troubles