To the OP. Regardless of the issue of premarital sex being clearly against the teaching of the Bible think about this. Your virginity is something you only give away once. In all my years I have never heard of someone having regret about not losing their virginity soon enough, but I have met countless people who regret having not waited.
Do yourself a big favor and don't let this guy play with your heart. Move on.
PLEASE TAKE ONCEFALLENS ADVISE VERY SERIOUSLY, THERE IS NOTHING MORE BEAUTIFUL AND PURE THAN MAKING A COMMITMENT TO THE LORD TO BE HIS AND LET HIS WILL BE DONE IN YOU, AND NOTHING MORE MORE HOLY THAN HOLY MATRIMONEY OF COURSE BESIDES OUR HOLY LORD. IT ALSO IS A COMMITMENT TO A COVENANT, IF YOU FIND YOURSELF OR THE OTHER NOT KEEPING THESE COMMITMENTS, DIVORSE AND HEARTACHE IS ON THE WAY, ALREADY YOU ARE MAKING UP YOUR MIND TO DIVORCE THE LORD, IN WALKING AND TALKING WITH HIM AND HONORING HIM. LIFES CURSES, THE DISOBIDIENCE IN THE GARDEN , AND THE FIRST BLOOD SHED BY OUR SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST IN THE GARDEN AS HE CRUCIFIED HIS HEART AND WILL AND DROPS OF SWEAT OF BLOOD FELL TO THE GROUND. HE REDEMED US FROM THIS CURSE, WITH HIS GREAT LOVE FOR TO GIVE LIFE ANEW, HE PRAYED IN THAT GARDEN OF GETHSAMENE, THOSE WHO CHOOSE THE WORLDS WAY, ONLY WALK AROUND THE MOUNTAIN ALL THEIR LIVES, AND BRING THE SAME CURSES UPON THEIR CHILDREN, AND THEIR CHILDRENS CHILDRENS . STOP AND THINK ABOUT HOW JESUS SPILLED HIS BLOOD FOR YOU IN THE GARDEN WITH A HEART OF LOVE THAT HAD TO BREAK INTO TWO, REMEMBER HIM ALSO AT COMMUNION WHEN THE BREAD IS BROKEN, AND WHEN THE WORD IS BROKEN, REMEMBER ME HE SAID. DO YOU LOVE HIM??????????