I whole-heartedly agree with this, but there are so many other things to look at and consider. The biggest problem I believe with marriage and younger crowds in this day and age is not keeping God first or in the center of the marriage to start, and on another token, we are living in a society where it's "acceptable" to wear anything and everything you want out in public, and even worse, to the house of God.....God forbid as Paul says. I admire the Christians of old and the ones we knew growing up who worked for their marriages and everything around them, because I could clearly see how God was blessing those marriages and yes even in their tribulations, I saw so many blessings. I go to church with a young man who was married to a woman for at least 3 years, and had a daughter with her. Now they are divorced, and the reason being from her side that she quote "Didn't want to be married to a police officer anymore" Now that family is torn apart, but I see still this young man at church regularly and she is nowhere to be found. I am no judge by no means, but where are the fruits?? Jesus said there are two ways a person can be divorced. One, is by the other committing adultery, and what's even more, is if a man or woman were to marry an adulterous man or woman, then THEY would be committing adultery. And the ONLY other way or bill of divorcement Jesus said was plausible, was if the man or the woman in that marriage passed away. Then, that person could re-marry. But marriage is a life long thing, it's a commitment you take before, not only just your friends and family, but before God Almighty that you will take the woman or man He has blessed you with in your life and cherish them and comfort them, in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others. What's sad is these vows continually get broken, and then we accept those divorcements like they are ok......It's not an issue of the head, it's definitely an issue of the heart. If before you wed you feel that person isn't right for you, then by all means, tell them about it if the Lord moves you on it. But if you truly love that person and want to marry them, stick with them! Work it out! I've seen marriages where the other person cheated, BUT they found it in their heart to forgive that person and reconcile and go on to have an exceptionally honorable and blessed marriage. Some of the happiest people I have ever known have been married 30, 40, 50, even 60 years, and their marriages weren't perfect, but one thing that stayed common with all those marriages, they kept God at the forefront, and He continually blessed them, with longevity, wisdom, love and passion, not only for the other person, but for Him as well. The main thing to understand is that marriage is a VERY serious thing. God does not take it lightly. Neither should we as Christians. I don't judge or condemn anyone that's gone through divorcement outside of what Christ outlined, but remember, Christ our Savior spoke on this matter, and He knows best. Christ will still love you no matter what, but when you think on divorcement, consider all of this before you break your vow and commitment, not just to those you love, but also to God.