Just remember that God is in control of all things. The Scriptures teach that the flesh and the Spirit are at conflict with
each other. Meaning!.. Our flesh seeks carnal things that are not of God. The Holy Spirit within us Seeks Heavenly
things that are of God.
When we are seeking, and putting much effort into seeking a relationship with the opposite sex. The chances are very high
that our motivation is to satisfy the flesh. This in turn can put us at a very high risk of doing things that are not pleasing to God.
Search your heart for your motivation of why you want a relationship. Are they for things of the Flesh? or Spirit?
You may find good reason For God to put a road block on a relationship for you. This opens a door for a relationship talking
with the Lord, Jesus Christ. Trusting, Believing, and Speaking with the Lord. Only good things can come of it. For only the Lord can bring us complete satisfaction.
GALATIANS 5:16 -5:22 is good reading for searching our heart if we are operating in the Flesh or Spirit.