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Introduction:
So I know that everyone that goes to church are not Christians, by what they say, how live, etc. But if someone declares themselves to be a Christian, then don't they have to take the bible into accord??? Well of course since being a Christian your life is based on the Bible.
Plot:
I've recently read a post (on a completely different site) from a female who is a "Christian" but she has sex with her boyfriend (he's an atheist). Lets call her Fiona. After a while Fiona left church, which she enjoyed going to. She stated that sometimes she feels guilty afterwards having sex thinking that any girl who wants to have sex (not married) is whorish. She feels a little "nagging" voice in her head that tells her what she's doing is wrong, but she's working on ignoring it because she enjoys doing it with him.
Fiona says if her mom knew, she'd be homeless. She wants to return to her church AND move in with her boyfriend (she's 19).
Fiona boyfriend thinks she only goes (went) to church because of her mom. He also thinks shes brainwashed (because she's "Christian"), she finds this very insulting, and he doesn't want their children (when they have them?) to attend church.
FYI: Fiona's a (former) youth leader. and has low self-esteem
The site I found this on is pro-choice. I badly wanted to comment, but I'd be blasted (and her post was mostly about how she feels guilty about her situation, I didn't want to make her feel worse... but).
My two cents:
Fiona boyfriend doesn't respect her "beliefs" because they're together. Perhaps is she weren't having sex with him, he'd see she was truly devoted to serving God and it means alot to her. He probably feels if she were serious, (and not just because of her mom) she'd have the Bible center in her life. He knows she doesn't (obviously), so he thinks its a bunch of bollocks.
I know its Fiona's personal issue, but why do some people do this??? Is it because they're not in God's will???
So you can either comment on the story or give a reason to my question (or both).
So I know that everyone that goes to church are not Christians, by what they say, how live, etc. But if someone declares themselves to be a Christian, then don't they have to take the bible into accord??? Well of course since being a Christian your life is based on the Bible.
Plot:
I've recently read a post (on a completely different site) from a female who is a "Christian" but she has sex with her boyfriend (he's an atheist). Lets call her Fiona. After a while Fiona left church, which she enjoyed going to. She stated that sometimes she feels guilty afterwards having sex thinking that any girl who wants to have sex (not married) is whorish. She feels a little "nagging" voice in her head that tells her what she's doing is wrong, but she's working on ignoring it because she enjoys doing it with him.
Fiona says if her mom knew, she'd be homeless. She wants to return to her church AND move in with her boyfriend (she's 19).
Fiona boyfriend thinks she only goes (went) to church because of her mom. He also thinks shes brainwashed (because she's "Christian"), she finds this very insulting, and he doesn't want their children (when they have them?) to attend church.
FYI: Fiona's a (former) youth leader. and has low self-esteem
The site I found this on is pro-choice. I badly wanted to comment, but I'd be blasted (and her post was mostly about how she feels guilty about her situation, I didn't want to make her feel worse... but).
My two cents:
Fiona boyfriend doesn't respect her "beliefs" because they're together. Perhaps is she weren't having sex with him, he'd see she was truly devoted to serving God and it means alot to her. He probably feels if she were serious, (and not just because of her mom) she'd have the Bible center in her life. He knows she doesn't (obviously), so he thinks its a bunch of bollocks.
I know its Fiona's personal issue, but why do some people do this??? Is it because they're not in God's will???
So you can either comment on the story or give a reason to my question (or both).