I'll be the bad guy and say clean. I do like men who cook, but I would hate it if I had to end up cleaning every single thing he uses, wether it is in the kitchen or elsewhere. Takes the pleasure out of it (''Honey I just made a 5 course meal just for you! :d'' Me: greaaaaaaat! ............
kill me now.)
My brother is like that. He opened cabinets and left them open. Took something out of the fridge and left it outside. His socks would misteriously appear in my room, even though he had his own room and rarely came to mine. I love him but, it wasnt fun lol. I would not want my husband to be OCD about cleaning, as I am not either , and I wouldnt mind doing the general cleaning, but if he knew how to NOT to leave a mess, that would be a plus!
If someone can do both...well, send him over!