Brother Biscuit, With the news continually broadcasting instances of deranged men committing sexual crimes against young women every day, I would think no mature Christian would ever advise a young woman to allow a man into her home to discuss sexual sin in the guise of being "sent by God" or in the form of "an angel". I am so disturbed by this. I can't think of one reason why I would be at ease about a man entering my daughter's home to talk about sexual sin. I honestly would report him to the police ASAP. I don't care if the man was Billy Freakin' Graham!
Precious sister Nikki (I just looked at your profile info and saw your name, dear) I am sorry if it sounds like I'm questioning you, dear. I am not. Older men know that young women are vulnerable and look up to a mature man's "wisdom." I'm not questioning you at all, honey. But as an older woman who has LOTS of friends and associates who are the business of counseling, I can tell you of a certainty that the first line of integrity is that it is not advised for men to counsel a young woman alone. Usually they schedule an office visit where there is a secretary or another woman in close vicinity. So please know that was my concern. It's just highly unusual that a man would pop up at your house unannounced and have knowledge about your addiction. At the risk of being branded a busy-body, I just wanted to let you know I'm concerned.