When i got divorced and was left with 2 children, i asked God to give me a good man that was more religious because i needed that in my life, he answered my prayer by sending my way the pastors son. when we met he was separated from his wife but not divorced. He divorced early in the 2014 and we got married in December same year.
I did notice his immediate family were not too profound of me. Maybe because i came in surprise out of nowhere or maybe because they really liked the ex wife of 8 years which ended up cheated on my now husband.
Making story short, she left my husband to try to make a baby since he wasn't able to give her one. She ended up getting married with someone else and had a baby. Unfortunately, the baby recently passed away. We did our part in donating for the funeral and condolences. (we as my husband and I) The in-laws that once said they didn't talk to her no more suddenly knew her whole life since the separation.The in-laws even call the baby their grandson. REALLY>?? My husband says that I'm just being crazy by being upset that they went all the way to even attend the funeral. We have even had arguments over this.
I have been asking my the same question... am i over reacting? or are they being too considerate of her?
She did cheated and left him. I understand the baby had nothing to do. I have been asking a few friends of mine and they say that the in-law should have paid respect and left it there.
Please advice as i have already asked God to enlighten me in this part of life.
I did notice his immediate family were not too profound of me. Maybe because i came in surprise out of nowhere or maybe because they really liked the ex wife of 8 years which ended up cheated on my now husband.
Making story short, she left my husband to try to make a baby since he wasn't able to give her one. She ended up getting married with someone else and had a baby. Unfortunately, the baby recently passed away. We did our part in donating for the funeral and condolences. (we as my husband and I) The in-laws that once said they didn't talk to her no more suddenly knew her whole life since the separation.The in-laws even call the baby their grandson. REALLY>?? My husband says that I'm just being crazy by being upset that they went all the way to even attend the funeral. We have even had arguments over this.
I have been asking my the same question... am i over reacting? or are they being too considerate of her?
She did cheated and left him. I understand the baby had nothing to do. I have been asking a few friends of mine and they say that the in-law should have paid respect and left it there.
Please advice as i have already asked God to enlighten me in this part of life.