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TheWriter

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Gojira said:
But... that you are able to begin a reconciliation is good. If worse comes to worse and he was to pass on, at least the parting will have been on good terms. You don't want the other.
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Very true brother, I won’t go into full details but it was not good at all back then.

I texted him the other day and told him regardless what this life throws at us you are still my brother and family and I love you.
 
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TheWriter

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Gojira said:
But... that you are able to begin a reconciliation is good. If worse comes to worse and he was to pass on, at least the parting will have been on good terms. You don't want the other.
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It was the hardest thing I had to do ever 😢. He was a monster, I sat in his house that day I was unconfertable but we talked about my brother and mom Who had passed. told him if my book and sent him a copy ebook. I did add his name to my dedication way before he knew about it.

I need to go to bed, it is still hard but I’m managing.
 
Gojira

Gojira

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TheWriter said:
It was the hardest thing I had to do ever 😢. He was a monster, I sat in his house that day I was unconfertable but we talked about my brother and mom Who had passed. told him if my book and sent him a copy ebook. I did add his name to my dedication way before he knew about it.

I need to go to bed, it is still hard but I’m managing.
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Don't think these things are overnight processes. They take a while.
 
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TheWriter

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Gojira said:
Don't think these things are overnight processes. They take a while.
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very true I’m the youngest of us six. It’s just extremely hard.
 
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TheWriter

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Gojira said:
Don't think these things are overnight processes. They take a while.
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Let me give u a small snippet of it. I grew up without my dad around, I had my brother to be abusive. Verbally and emotionally with physical abuse.
I walked the streets since I was 5 just to get away from him. He is my oldest brother. If I slept he said I would not wake up (a nicer way to put what he said).

ptsd is not a good friend to have to specially from that.

but I had to grow up at age 13 big time and Ifought back by around 18
 
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TheWriter

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Gojira said:
Well you're not alone in having family drama and problems. Trust me :)
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Yeah I know, but at times feeling alone is all one can feel. but I’m learning to accept and cope
 
Magenta

Magenta

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TheWriter said:
Lol no brother not you. If you can see what I write it is not you.
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People you block can see what you write. You just can't see what they do (unless you unblock ignored content).
 
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TheWriter

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Magenta said:
People you block can see what you write. You just can't see what they do (unless you unblock ignored content).
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:) I stand corrected. Anyway I will say this and only this. The individual is not from the USA. That will be all I will discuss to it.
 
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Karlon

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all manner of blessings to you.
 
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