In the few day's that I have been in this site or on it I am amazed at the amount of broken believers some in my place and outher's well in there place.What is happening to our world is relationships that cheep in todays world.Is the enemy that persuasive that he is so successful? Or is love thought of as just another cheep comodity to be bartered with like so many apples?DAVID
I very agree. And that's also something making me sad, that it is even so very normal for many Christians getting divorced too, nowadays. There is sure often a reason for most divorces, but at times I think it might be to easily taken in.
I do struggle with many things in my marriage, and being still very newly wedded, it feels quite different than what most newly wedded experience during their first years. I sometimes envy the fact that our marriage start wasn't like it normally is for most newly weddded people, nor my experience of our Wedding Day, and it saddens me. We do are brought together by God, but we don't have a easy start of marriage like many seem to have. I do try my best encouraging myself with that me and my husband will get much much stronger through this all, and when other hardships will come up later in our marriage we will pull through even much easier and with more strenght in the Lord together than what many others will do.
Marriages are to be worked on as well, one shouldn't enter in marriage thinking everything will go fine, and that there will be few difficulties. If we have to many dreams we might end up more disappointed than content. I at times feel unhappy, and we have been now married for soon 7 months. Marriage isn't always a dance on roses, this I truly know now very early since we married. I still struggle with much hurt inside of me, and it takes time dealing with this. Still I don't give up fully, and I do know God will help us through, and heal and restore our relationship. I am not a person that gives up that easily, though I do can feel very helpless sometimes too. But we just have to keep on trusting God, and let Him keep on working in us and with our relationship.