it's good that you are seeking Gods direction, i've found the first answer is the one thats better for me to follow. here is one time i wasn't sure what God wanted. some lady walked up to me and asked if i could do something for her as i was sitting on the porch. i didn't get a good feeling, so i said i need to check it out with God. i went into house and asked God, and the answer was no, not an audible no just the feeling. then i started thinking what is this lady going to think, what kind of christian is this guy, so i asked God again, this time i didn't feel an answer, so i thought it was ok, went out on porch and told the lady let me get my shoes on, as i was going to get my shoes, i was stopped in my tracks, this was to much, i told the lady i couldn't do it. What pleases people, doesn't always please God.