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So some background... my wife and I are church goers and are born again.. at least I thought we were.. my wife of 8 years has decided I am 'too religious' and 'God Focused' and has decided she does not want a life lived through the lens of the bible.. within 1 day of me leaving the home (a few weeks after she ended our marriage and kissed another man) she had a different guy staying over... she says there was nothing going on before and she admits to now being intimate with him within the first week of our seperation. Now another couple from another church we are friendly with went with my wife (we are still legally married) out to a cooked full English Breakfast this morning with this chap in tow with whom she is now 'in a confirmed relationship with'.. I felt hurt by this as while they have every right to be friends with my wife.. despite her adultery.. the bible is clear that:
So my question is do I have a right to be offended or upset, betrayed they sat down with me wife and this 'new fella' and ate with them.. as it feels to me by eating with them they have almost acccepted and blessed the 'relationship' as ok.. I personally feel that if the scripture verse above applies they should even refuse to eat with her in this 'sin' as opposed to almost giving their blessing by allowing her and this bloke to their company..
What are the thoughts of those here on it.. am I being silly, mis apprpriating this scripture for my situation??
I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people— [SUP]10 [/SUP]not at all meaning the sexually immoral of this world, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters, since then you would need to go out of the world. [SUP]11 [/SUP]But now I am writing to you not to associate with anyone who bears the name of brother if he is guilty of sexual immorality or greed, or is an idolater, reviler, drunkard, or swindler—not even to eat with such a one. [SUP]12 [/SUP]For what have I to do with judging outsiders? Is it not those inside the church whom you are to judge? [SUP]13 [/SUP]God judges those outside. “Purge the evil person from among you.”
What are the thoughts of those here on it.. am I being silly, mis apprpriating this scripture for my situation??