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Brother Cee mentioned this in another thread and it got me thinking.
I think sometimes it's possible to communicate too much and lose all the mystery in a relationship. So there is a tension both ways.
C.
Here's my question/thoughts:
In the past I would never have considered this a possibility, that you can communicate too much and lose all of the mystery in a relationship (I had no experience in this arena, so everything was new), but I had heard others mention it a few times before (family, a friend or two) that it can happen. I see now that this is quite possible, but for future reference, how does one avoid over sharing with their loved one? If you're honest with each other and passionate about each other and just want to share with each other, what are some steps you can take to share at a more considered pace? I see the value of mystery in the relationship, but I'm not sure how this would play out when we should be open and honest with each other etc. For example: I greatly value honesty and openness, and if I trust you, I'll share much of myself with you. So, I'm a little confused. Any help would be awesome. Thanks.
I think sometimes it's possible to communicate too much and lose all the mystery in a relationship. So there is a tension both ways.
C.
Here's my question/thoughts:
In the past I would never have considered this a possibility, that you can communicate too much and lose all of the mystery in a relationship (I had no experience in this arena, so everything was new), but I had heard others mention it a few times before (family, a friend or two) that it can happen. I see now that this is quite possible, but for future reference, how does one avoid over sharing with their loved one? If you're honest with each other and passionate about each other and just want to share with each other, what are some steps you can take to share at a more considered pace? I see the value of mystery in the relationship, but I'm not sure how this would play out when we should be open and honest with each other etc. For example: I greatly value honesty and openness, and if I trust you, I'll share much of myself with you. So, I'm a little confused. Any help would be awesome. Thanks.