beware leading people astray in your anger
Meh. I'm not angry, just sad that these types of organizations and methods of abuse exist. And that's real, some people can't get married due to stalkers and government and things like that. They might even have difficulty finding girlfriends and such.
But again, I'm giving my perspective on things. That's a burden I bear, that It's very difficult to live my life according to biblical standards. No matter what I do I'm wrong because I chose to speak out about family and social issues relating to... Well. The truth is out there. It's REALLY out there.
I would say that the Bible is right. If you can get married so as not to fall into sin, do. If you can go without getting married and can keep your flesh in check, that's even better. All things are permissible, but not all things are beneficial. God can teach us to be stronger to be able to resist sin, but if we do sin we have an advocate who will plead our case before Dad - Jesus Christ. It takes time to be perfected - God works on us a bit at a time. A righteous man falls seven (any number of) times and rises again.
I don't know about leading people astray, that's how scripture reads.
Do your best. Keep the faith.
These are dark times but God is good!