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Hi All,
I just joined in today. Hope to hear a few advise. My husband and i has been seperated (physically) for over a year now.
We had a very chaotic life before, he even tried hanging himself (luckily one of our daughters saw him before it's too late). He was a drug user since i met him in 1993 (i was 17 yrs. then) and we eloped. We were wed when i was 18 because i got pregnant with our 1st child. I was pregnant 3 yrs in a row. I was hoping he would change but he didn't. 2 yrs ago he got to chat with his 2nd degree female cousin whom he had a romance with when he was a teenager and they were constantly talking, cellphone & online. When he left home, that cousin was his companion, she even sleeps at his rented house. She is also married with 3 kids and her husband is working abroad in Canada.
We're in a situation now that i can't really put in. We were not communicating at all for many months and in July we started texting. With him saying that the cousin is now in Canada but eventually is not and he's still talking to her. Now he comes home on some weekends and spends a day or two with us, we have 4 kids.
He still didn't say anything about getting back together, to be a whole family again. He's still aloof sometimes. There are times we don't communicate for a week at all. He gives allowance for our eldest child who's in college but that's all. I provide for my kids alone. We have 3 teens and a 4 yr. old.
I know God would want me to stay put and trust Him while He's fixing us. But should i still keep on texting him even if it seems my husband doesn't care for me at all?
Thanks in advance for your words of wisdom! ^_^
Meah04
I just joined in today. Hope to hear a few advise. My husband and i has been seperated (physically) for over a year now.
We had a very chaotic life before, he even tried hanging himself (luckily one of our daughters saw him before it's too late). He was a drug user since i met him in 1993 (i was 17 yrs. then) and we eloped. We were wed when i was 18 because i got pregnant with our 1st child. I was pregnant 3 yrs in a row. I was hoping he would change but he didn't. 2 yrs ago he got to chat with his 2nd degree female cousin whom he had a romance with when he was a teenager and they were constantly talking, cellphone & online. When he left home, that cousin was his companion, she even sleeps at his rented house. She is also married with 3 kids and her husband is working abroad in Canada.
We're in a situation now that i can't really put in. We were not communicating at all for many months and in July we started texting. With him saying that the cousin is now in Canada but eventually is not and he's still talking to her. Now he comes home on some weekends and spends a day or two with us, we have 4 kids.
He still didn't say anything about getting back together, to be a whole family again. He's still aloof sometimes. There are times we don't communicate for a week at all. He gives allowance for our eldest child who's in college but that's all. I provide for my kids alone. We have 3 teens and a 4 yr. old.
I know God would want me to stay put and trust Him while He's fixing us. But should i still keep on texting him even if it seems my husband doesn't care for me at all?
Thanks in advance for your words of wisdom! ^_^
Meah04