So you have a boyfriend, while contemplating getting back with an ex (according to other posts of yours)?
And your current boyfriend talks to you during his seizures (or some voice comes through him)?
Looking at the state of your dating life, mixed with the high levels of confusion and difficulty in recognizing God's direction it sounds as if you have other aspects of your life (spiritual) that you need to be focused on, not dating.
You seem to be all over the place and clueless as to where to go next. Perhaps it's time to take a break from dating and getting closer with God, learning His character and how to recognize His guidance more clearly.
One thing I try to use to determine the likelihood of if God is speaking or not is precedence. Is it a way God frequently speaks? Is there anything that seems off?
God can do whatever He wants, communicate however Hehe wishes, but some ways just don't sound right. My personal 'opinion' is that something about this sounds off.