Finally need good advice

[MarcR]

Thanks Blue Ladybug _ I do know that infidelity is a reason for divorce but then I read all these articles about forgiveness and working on your marriage and being a better wife and I do try to only get hurt again and again. In all these articles they blame the wife _ simply said _ not being good enough. I then try to be better with all these pictures of woman with more porn like bodies and more fun turning in my head and I can never get to a point where I feel I am good enough

The people who write those articles should each be force fed a gallon of prune juice and hung by their ankles until they foul themselves as badly as they foul their readers.

 

[RememberTheSabbathDay]

BrokenAgain,


What exactly are u afraid of? Did not God say, husbands love your wives as Christ loves the church and gave himself for it? Is your husband doing this? Yes, God hates divorce but He also gave certain qualification for a marriage and qualifications for a divorce. Its not that God cannot repair your marriage and its not like the both of you can't remarry each other again after God has cleaned him spiritually. If you decide to get a divorce, and this man has repented and been set free from these destructive sins, why not remarry if the both of you agree? So its not like its the end of the road for you marriage if your husband gets clean. But you must turn him over to Jesus to fix him. He has a deadly dishonest disease that only the Great Physician can fix.

 

[SoulWeaver]

Thank you all for the advice - please pray that God will give me strength to pull through and not to believe it when he tells me it is all my fault and I start the roller coaster again. God bless to you all xoxo

He has proven to be a liar so why would you believe a proven LIAR? God bless you and do not submit the child of God within you to his twisting of the truth! He does not have a repentant heart, but of stone. Any longsuffering with him will be unfruitful. Please dont allow him to break you any more or suck you back into abuse! He sounds pretty much narcissistic to me... in your place I'd look into this personality disorder and how to recover from narcissistic abuse... God bless

 

[mystikmind]

There is a Christian movie called 'Fireproof' and a book called the 40 day challenge

Perhaps you can get your husband to watch the movie and follow the book? it is seriously powerful!

In the movie, the husband is also addicted to internet porn,,, then at one point he takes his computer outside and smashes it!

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