It seem as though Matthew 20:28 and Mark 10:45 is the subject here and it is being tanken out of context.
Matthew 20:20-28 with 20-23 was about the the sons of Zebedee's mom coming to Jesus asking if her son could be the top dawg's along side Jesus. Jesus asked if they could drink the cup He was gooing to drink and of course they said, yes. Jesus replied that they would indeed drink but it was not His to give them that position. Matthew 20:24-28 the other 10 disciples heard this and were upset with the two brothers. Jesus explained how the Gentiles rules and had their leaders lord over their followers and it would not be so with their leadership, bt that the one the would be thier leader would be thier servant. Then He said He did not come to be served but to serve and give Himself a ransom for many the Greek word "πολὑς" what I find interesting is BAGD has I Timothy 2:6 using the same word, but in I Timothy 2:6 it is translated "all" in most translations.
Just like He came to be a ransom for many, His leadership standard would be for the many, not all men.