A question-
Is remembering what someone said/did a sign of unforgiveness?
To lay out the context a bit better, I want to provide an anecdote of my experience on CC.
CC is always an interesting place - many of us come from all different backgrounds and its diversity is its strong point.
However I have had a few skirmishes with a few members (no regrets and frankly don't care). I don't hold it against any of them personally but I do recall most of the exchange (both positive and negative) if I see their usernames or interact with them.
Many of them on being confronted end up being surprised and take it as "holding a grudge".
The members that I have had issues with have probably been more quite active from their postings than me.
Their CC "lives" must be way more fast paced than me.The other proposition is that I have really good memory.
Either way, are we supposed to just keep quiet about someone's wrong doing and let it go as an act of forgiveness? Is it wrong to bring up past mistakes?
Is remembering what someone said/did a sign of unforgiveness?
To lay out the context a bit better, I want to provide an anecdote of my experience on CC.
CC is always an interesting place - many of us come from all different backgrounds and its diversity is its strong point.
However I have had a few skirmishes with a few members (no regrets and frankly don't care). I don't hold it against any of them personally but I do recall most of the exchange (both positive and negative) if I see their usernames or interact with them.
Many of them on being confronted end up being surprised and take it as "holding a grudge".
The members that I have had issues with have probably been more quite active from their postings than me.
Their CC "lives" must be way more fast paced than me.The other proposition is that I have really good memory.
Either way, are we supposed to just keep quiet about someone's wrong doing and let it go as an act of forgiveness? Is it wrong to bring up past mistakes?