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I've known this guy for years and years now, and we've never been more than friends until this year. We're both Christian, and we want to be married as soon as we're able. But we've had a few problems, that have made my parents dislike our relationship, and distrust us.
He asked my parents about dating me, and things were going a little faster than my parents wanted them to. So they started putting restrictions on us; and we started getting a little rebellious. The more restrictions, the more rebellion is basically how it was.
Anyway. We'd hold hands without permission, and we'd lie about a lot of stuff. Eventually I snuck out with him one night, and we ended up kissing.
We've been separated so that we can see each other, and talk to each other, but we can't tell each other how we feel.
We understand that it was our choices that led us here. But it's hurting both of us terribly. And I hate to see him hurting like he does. I don't care so much about my happiness, as I do about his.
I need help because I'm struggling with doing the right thing. When all I want to do is curl up in his arms and cry on his shoulder. I love him and miss him so much, and I want so badly to actually TALK to him again.
My parents are trying to help me, but they just don't seem to understand me. As much as they say they do. I want to believe they can help me, but they just seem too critical when I try to talk to them. (Every time I tell them I love him, they roll their eyes or do something else that makes me feel like crawling back into my shell)
My parents want me to be able to talk to them, but I feel like their constantly attacking me and my feelings.
I really need friends and prayers right now, for him and me.
And if you've got advice, I could really use it.
(sorry for the length of this post)
He asked my parents about dating me, and things were going a little faster than my parents wanted them to. So they started putting restrictions on us; and we started getting a little rebellious. The more restrictions, the more rebellion is basically how it was.
Anyway. We'd hold hands without permission, and we'd lie about a lot of stuff. Eventually I snuck out with him one night, and we ended up kissing.
We've been separated so that we can see each other, and talk to each other, but we can't tell each other how we feel.
We understand that it was our choices that led us here. But it's hurting both of us terribly. And I hate to see him hurting like he does. I don't care so much about my happiness, as I do about his.
I need help because I'm struggling with doing the right thing. When all I want to do is curl up in his arms and cry on his shoulder. I love him and miss him so much, and I want so badly to actually TALK to him again.
My parents are trying to help me, but they just don't seem to understand me. As much as they say they do. I want to believe they can help me, but they just seem too critical when I try to talk to them. (Every time I tell them I love him, they roll their eyes or do something else that makes me feel like crawling back into my shell)
My parents want me to be able to talk to them, but I feel like their constantly attacking me and my feelings.
I really need friends and prayers right now, for him and me.
And if you've got advice, I could really use it.
(sorry for the length of this post)