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Hey guys to all who have seen and replied to my post thread “Kinda new here...need some advice.” I wanted to make everything clear to you and explain how I met up with my boyfriend who lives in Italy. For those who have no idea what I’m talking about check out the post thread. So let me begin...
One day at home I happened to be feeling like reallyyyyy bored and so I decided to go online to a chat website, chatstep.com. I scrolled through the available rooms and clicked on a room named ChristianChat. There was no way I was going to go in a room that was not Christian. So I entered and it was not what I expected. Most of the people there were not Christians at all! There were a bunch of people conversing about topics that weren’t at all in a Christian manner. I was very disappointed. I did not fit in there at all. I was wondering, what am I doing here? As I was planning to get outta there a message popped up addressed to me. Now I don’t remember the message very well...but it was not pleasant at all. All I do remember it was abusive in its words and just plain mean. I looked to see who would dare write that to me and saw an awkward nick called “qwer”. Weird, I thought. So I foolishly typed back... “that was so mean of you to say that!” I couldn’t think of anything else but that. so pls, don’t blame me. Anyway, I got an answer a few seconds later that read... “I’m sorry. I didn’t mean to say all that.” I was still appalled so I replied, “are you a robot?” I literally thought he was! No human being can say what he just said, I was thinking. The chatter replied that he was not then a few seconds later he pleaded with me that he needed help and wanted me to join him in a separate private room on that site. I was hesitant of course but he was insisting that he was sorry and that he needed desperate help. Little did I know, this chatter was a 17yr old guy from Italy who had been struggling with his salvation and was going through some “guy” stuff that was causing him to say those things to me. I felt compelled to help this poor guy so I reluctantly logged into his room. Thats where I learned what was going on. Sadly, he thought by watching pornography, he could control his desires. Which is clearly wrong. I told him he must stop watching that kind of stuff and its just going to make things worse. He was listening attentively to me. Later on in the conversation he said he had to go. But before he left he wanted to have my email. Now I was a bit hesitant so I said no. Surprisingly, he just gave me his. (btw, his name is Kevin )He said to me that he wanted to talk more about other stuff so I agreed to write him... (I found out he came from a family of five; one brother, his parents, and an uncle who is a priest. He has shown me a pic of him and I agreed that he was of Italian descent...his name is **edited**...but prefers to be called Kevin)
Well, to make a long story short we started to chat about life and I answered his questions wisely when he needed advice. We started to email each other more occasionally and I sensed something springing up between us. During this time, I started to trust him more and little did I know I actually saved him from deep trouble if I didn’t come to his rescue. He has repeatedly told me that. well, we became friends and conversed in regular conversation. I was not interested in being more than friends...yet. I told him that and he respected that even though he really wanted it. Slowly by slowly, I began to realize my feelings for him and I couldn’t deny it anymore. About 8 months later, we began a relationship, if I can say that. let me show you a portion of a personal email he’s given me that has really cleared my doubts:
"sorry for my bad english i hope you'll understand what i'm trying to say. everyone can save souls because i believe God will do everything to save everyone's souls. we are instruments and objects of salvation. i believe He wanted me to find you, because i need you to guide me to salvation. i was so lost before meeting you and now i feel so blessed..."
Yep, beautiful right? I've never shown anyone that...but i felt that i should. Now, im afraid if i do tell my parents, they'll stop my communication with him. that will break his heart if i one day disappear from his life. sooo...i would love your response and if you have questions....be free to ask.
One day at home I happened to be feeling like reallyyyyy bored and so I decided to go online to a chat website, chatstep.com. I scrolled through the available rooms and clicked on a room named ChristianChat. There was no way I was going to go in a room that was not Christian. So I entered and it was not what I expected. Most of the people there were not Christians at all! There were a bunch of people conversing about topics that weren’t at all in a Christian manner. I was very disappointed. I did not fit in there at all. I was wondering, what am I doing here? As I was planning to get outta there a message popped up addressed to me. Now I don’t remember the message very well...but it was not pleasant at all. All I do remember it was abusive in its words and just plain mean. I looked to see who would dare write that to me and saw an awkward nick called “qwer”. Weird, I thought. So I foolishly typed back... “that was so mean of you to say that!” I couldn’t think of anything else but that. so pls, don’t blame me. Anyway, I got an answer a few seconds later that read... “I’m sorry. I didn’t mean to say all that.” I was still appalled so I replied, “are you a robot?” I literally thought he was! No human being can say what he just said, I was thinking. The chatter replied that he was not then a few seconds later he pleaded with me that he needed help and wanted me to join him in a separate private room on that site. I was hesitant of course but he was insisting that he was sorry and that he needed desperate help. Little did I know, this chatter was a 17yr old guy from Italy who had been struggling with his salvation and was going through some “guy” stuff that was causing him to say those things to me. I felt compelled to help this poor guy so I reluctantly logged into his room. Thats where I learned what was going on. Sadly, he thought by watching pornography, he could control his desires. Which is clearly wrong. I told him he must stop watching that kind of stuff and its just going to make things worse. He was listening attentively to me. Later on in the conversation he said he had to go. But before he left he wanted to have my email. Now I was a bit hesitant so I said no. Surprisingly, he just gave me his. (btw, his name is Kevin )He said to me that he wanted to talk more about other stuff so I agreed to write him... (I found out he came from a family of five; one brother, his parents, and an uncle who is a priest. He has shown me a pic of him and I agreed that he was of Italian descent...his name is **edited**...but prefers to be called Kevin)
Well, to make a long story short we started to chat about life and I answered his questions wisely when he needed advice. We started to email each other more occasionally and I sensed something springing up between us. During this time, I started to trust him more and little did I know I actually saved him from deep trouble if I didn’t come to his rescue. He has repeatedly told me that. well, we became friends and conversed in regular conversation. I was not interested in being more than friends...yet. I told him that and he respected that even though he really wanted it. Slowly by slowly, I began to realize my feelings for him and I couldn’t deny it anymore. About 8 months later, we began a relationship, if I can say that. let me show you a portion of a personal email he’s given me that has really cleared my doubts:
"sorry for my bad english i hope you'll understand what i'm trying to say. everyone can save souls because i believe God will do everything to save everyone's souls. we are instruments and objects of salvation. i believe He wanted me to find you, because i need you to guide me to salvation. i was so lost before meeting you and now i feel so blessed..."
Yep, beautiful right? I've never shown anyone that...but i felt that i should. Now, im afraid if i do tell my parents, they'll stop my communication with him. that will break his heart if i one day disappear from his life. sooo...i would love your response and if you have questions....be free to ask.
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