You are the vessel, the temple of God You save souls by the spirit that is in you. you cannot approach the wicked on their terms and in their enviroment . They will talk their talk, leading you away from a Godly conversation which you ought to approach them with.Love is a lot more than you think. to save a soul ,you must tell them about themselves that they may open their eyes to the truth. that is more love than being just kind. we believers already know how to be that way.