So I have decided that there is no such thing as true love. As psychology taught us that relationships are built on several things, proximity, interests, and one other that I forgot. But honestly, do people think that there is just one person out there?
I think that honestly, I have had 2 girlfriends out of the bunch that I have genuinely cared for, I was willing to get married, however the timing wasn't right since both times we were still in school. I have plans that I want to finish before I get married and they had plans to finish school as well.
One of my friends is moving out of the country to marry his girlfriend and talks about how much he loves her and what not, but I can't forget the times he said the same thing to the last girl. But this time he is getting married...
It has always been my idea that as long as she treats me right and is willing to work with me and me back to her. We can live a happy and content life. As people we have needs, as long as the person fulfills those needs then you can be happy. Especially since happiness is a state of mind.
I know that out of the gf's that I have had, I would marry in a heart beat 2 of them. Not because I think that they are perfect, but because I know that they have seen/been with me when I was flying high and when I was down and out and they still liked me. I know that I liked them even though they aren't perfect. When I hear happy couples talking and saying "he/she is perfect" I want to be like, well sonny your in for a rude awakening when you roll over one day and realize that they aren't.
I think that honestly, I have had 2 girlfriends out of the bunch that I have genuinely cared for, I was willing to get married, however the timing wasn't right since both times we were still in school. I have plans that I want to finish before I get married and they had plans to finish school as well.
One of my friends is moving out of the country to marry his girlfriend and talks about how much he loves her and what not, but I can't forget the times he said the same thing to the last girl. But this time he is getting married...
It has always been my idea that as long as she treats me right and is willing to work with me and me back to her. We can live a happy and content life. As people we have needs, as long as the person fulfills those needs then you can be happy. Especially since happiness is a state of mind.
I know that out of the gf's that I have had, I would marry in a heart beat 2 of them. Not because I think that they are perfect, but because I know that they have seen/been with me when I was flying high and when I was down and out and they still liked me. I know that I liked them even though they aren't perfect. When I hear happy couples talking and saying "he/she is perfect" I want to be like, well sonny your in for a rude awakening when you roll over one day and realize that they aren't.