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I need prayer, not advice. John is sicker tonight than he was this morning. He feels awful. His poop bag leaks and he has a bedsore healing on his bum, so the bag leaking may cause bigger problems. (He also says the wound is well protected, so it's not a problem.) They held off feeding him yesterday, until they decided if it was safe because the place where his feeding tube goes into his belly hurt like crazy when he was being given his medication through the feed tube, and today they held off for half a day. When the nurse finally did feed him, she was so busy she didn't notice the only thing getting through was water. Diarrhea is his reward when he is fed. Worse yet, it's his reward if he's not fed.
My husband hurts. My impulse is to call someone and make them do something for him. He says not to. My impulse... well, very hard to control an impulse, very hard not to do whatever I can for him, and mostly no idea what I can or should do. Please pray God lets me know what to do or he does what needs to be done.
My husband hurts. My impulse is to call someone and make them do something for him. He says not to. My impulse... well, very hard to control an impulse, very hard not to do whatever I can for him, and mostly no idea what I can or should do. Please pray God lets me know what to do or he does what needs to be done.