Dear leelee,
I am probably one of those people that you would find "judgmental". I would like to offer a partial defense for those of us who come across that way.
As you can see, I am almost 3 times as old as you. I have seen a lot in my lifetime that you will never see or experience, but what I have seen has shaped the world which you live in. And a lot of it hasn't been good; from a Christian perspective. I have seen prayer removed from our schools; to the extent that you can't even "bless" a high school football game any more. I have seen the Ten Commandments forcibly ripped from public display. I have seen the "gay pride" movement totally pollute the thinking of a whole generation, and more.
The problem is, what you regard as "facts" really are not; they are inventions of a secular culture that wants to suppress Christianity to the extent that it totally disappears from the face of the earth. They have reinvented history, put forth preposterous notions in the name of "science", and generally muddied the waters until it is barely possible to discern what the "truth" is any more.
But, throughout everything, what stands out is the inerrant truth of Scripture. God is the same today as he was when He lead the Israelites out of Egypt. He had certain standards then, and those standards have never changed. I am fond of telling people that "The times may change, but God never does." So, when I speak out against gay rights (
not gay people), or when I question the validity of the
theory of evolution, I am not being judgmental. I am speaking the truth as I see it.
And no one will know who is right until we all stand before the judgement seat of God.
God bless you.