All caps is annoying and some consider it rude and even yelling.
Multiple question marks just makes you look desperate for attention.
Both of these things makes you look less credible to many.
Lastly less emphasis on CAPS and ??????????? and more emphasis on wording your question in an understandable manner, rather than some frantic sentence that has no thought put into it's wording, would help people to understand what you're asking. At this point i have no idea what you're asking.
All relationships can end and the reasons are endless.
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dear not-ugly-to us,
please forgive me, I wasn't aware that I was using 'caps',
or that they we considered an offence to some.
oh dear, I had no idea that multiply (?) marks were also offensive,
please accept another heartfelt apology, it seems that we need some
education in 'on line edicate.'
as far as my husband and i feel about how others judge us about needing desperate attention,
please be assured that the only attention we desire or need is from our Best Friend.
perhaps, as we have learned over the years, it is that if we can take some time and
contemplate what it is that someone who loves our Father is trying to convey
in their own way in order to share and help their brethren along in their journey,
that we can only hope and pray that the lessons we have learned along the way will
in some way be a help to our brothers and sisters in Christ.
sincerely,]
oldthennew