I'm new here and I feel like I'm falling apart. I have no one for support and I am so desperate for help. I'm at my breaking point. I'm ready to give up. My will to live is slowly fading. I'm 24 with three children my marriage has fallen apart my ex threw me and our children out to move in his home wrecking girlfriend and her children in. I am so depressed and I just don't know what to do anymore.
Words wont help. Actions do. I will pray for you, as will many others. Mean time:
1. Contact an evangelical or catholic crisis pregnancy centre. They have facilities.
2. Contact a local church for help. Talk to a pastor or the head of the deacons board.
3. He CANT just throw you out. Phone the police, tell them your situation, and if anything criminal occurred lay charges.
4. Don't lose hope. Contact HIS family, especially HIS mother and father, and beg for help in the name of the grand children.
5. If you have committed Christian friends, contact them for help, esp. temporary shelter.
6. Contact a crisis resolution expert so that a trained professional can talk to him and intermediate.
7. Contact a lawyer, and have him charged with abuse--if any has occurred. NAIL him for child support and alimony. Most states are very pro-active in this regard.
8. Report her and her children to Child Welfare Services. In other words, legally and morally, make his life a living hell. Punish him. The bible teaches mercy for victims, not mercy for criminals. If adultery has been committed, then in a godly society, you could demand that he and she be put to death, and you would receive all the assets.
Do not fold, do not give up, that is exactly what Satan his father wants. Fight for the real victims...your children. Cry, scream, throw a few things around but...get over it and take action and then God will strengthen you. As you take action, watch the hand of God take over, and make provision for you.
2 looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him ENDURED the cross, DESPISING the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
3 For consider Him who ENDURED such hostility from sinners against Himself, lest you become weary and discouraged in your souls.
4 You have not yet resisted to bloodshed, striving against sin. (Heb 12:2-4 NKJ)