well do you love yourself or hate yourself. If I ever am able to love myself it would be because he loved me first not because of who I am or anything. I recall early in my faith I truly understood grace and I could look inisde myself and only see him and I only knew myself as his child not this sinner and inadequate unworthy person I see now. I believe this was a foreshadow of who I was going to be in the future not yet come. Now if you truly are in love with yourslelf and are mesmerized everytime you see yourself in the mirror and are always talking about how amazing you are that is not self love that is self obsession