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Hello everyone,
I am a man have not been working for a year because my wife and I both agreed it was best for me. She makes a lot of money which allows me to stay home. We don't have any kids and have been married for 15 years. Recently we celebrated our 15 year anniversary and recently almost went through a divorce. During our anniversary day we went out and had fun but when we got home later on the evening the issue of money came up and she got really depressed. I have been looking for a job because I can't put her under that stress anymore because her job is very demanding. We. It's agreed she should take a step back and not have so many clients (so she has time for me). I am very sensitive to her working harder because it has historically caused distance in our relationship. I have been getting mad at her because she had to lie to people about our anniversary to take a day off with me. I don't like her lying because I feel she should be proud to be married for 15 years. Also she has been marketing to new people because we are tight on cash right now. I believe this action goes against all we are working towards and we had a very big argument last night about it and now I feel like she is going to leave me again. What am I doing wrong and what is she doing wrong? Why do I always feel she puts me on the back burner for her job?
I am a man have not been working for a year because my wife and I both agreed it was best for me. She makes a lot of money which allows me to stay home. We don't have any kids and have been married for 15 years. Recently we celebrated our 15 year anniversary and recently almost went through a divorce. During our anniversary day we went out and had fun but when we got home later on the evening the issue of money came up and she got really depressed. I have been looking for a job because I can't put her under that stress anymore because her job is very demanding. We. It's agreed she should take a step back and not have so many clients (so she has time for me). I am very sensitive to her working harder because it has historically caused distance in our relationship. I have been getting mad at her because she had to lie to people about our anniversary to take a day off with me. I don't like her lying because I feel she should be proud to be married for 15 years. Also she has been marketing to new people because we are tight on cash right now. I believe this action goes against all we are working towards and we had a very big argument last night about it and now I feel like she is going to leave me again. What am I doing wrong and what is she doing wrong? Why do I always feel she puts me on the back burner for her job?