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Hi everyone, I had troubles in my marriage that were brought on by me mostly. I had left the household for about 3 weeks and moved back this past week. I discovered my wife had been using Christian mingle. She met some guy on there and I accidentally saw some emails. She knows I know. they are chatting,texting,Facebook.she even wanted to invite him over last nite but knew I had a problem with that.we have 2 little boys.she keeps talking about and moving in the direction of divorce. I still love her but don't want divorce.last night she met the guy at the mall instead of him coming over.she asks me if I'm OK now,because when I first found out I was very upset and hurt.but I'm trying to be the good guy and still helping in the home and the boys.I want a chance..to be forgiven,I don't wanna feel like she's given up on me. She tells me she was drawn to him because of his commitment to his christian faith. I thought of contacting him very nicely and ask him to stay out of my marriage, I mean if he is really that good of a guy and Christian, he would understand.even though my wife would not like it maybe.from what I have seen on his Facebook, he's very much Christian.. quoting scripture etc. He's employed at VOA and a homeless shelter place..case worker I think. So, what should I do...any advice? Thanks for your time.