Hi Firecracker,
I know you've probably alredy heard "God only gives you as much as you can handle......" and "Every time a door closes, a window opens......." and while these are TRUE, sometimes just hearing those words are NOT what helps the most. IF you find yourself in need of more than that, what I am going to suggest is something I often suggest to many,,,, some may say it is my "cure-all" and in some ways, maybe it is!!! Take a walk....it gives your head a chance to clear a bit. I don't know your situation or your location (not asking either!) but if you can get to a park especially, and take a good long walk..even every day or so...it does help some! Take time to just think, you may find that after a bit you're thinking about happy things as well as your problems/worries. That's what helps me most. It gives me a chance also to look around me and take note of the beauty God gave us in our world. I go to a park that has a lot of ducks and geese, and other birds and wildlife.....such a joy to see what I can see there! I also take walks around my block, sometimes I happen into someone for a quick and friendly chat..that always renews my spirits too!! Aside from a walk, remember to do things for yourself......sit and read, or do a puzzle.....anything you enjoy that isnt expensive (and therefore won't make you feel guilty for enjoying it on a tight budget) and will occupy your mind with something other than "what your going through". As for the finances......tackle one thing at a time and remember to keep the lines of conmunication open with the people you owe money to. Most businesses work with you better if YOU call THEM, instead of THEM calling YOU! I will be praying for you....God Bless.