Well you shouldn't be so "fixated" on staying a virgin or not,you should be "focused" on what "God wants" many in the world will tell you that to lose your virginity is "cool" or that to be a virgin is being "weird or a freak" I've even had people stoop so low as to call me gay,don't think on what "people want or what they think" your path is between you and God/Jesus,put him first and "think on" what you desire in life and what in life you can do for him,and all will come together in time,it's not "easy" but try to think on what is right,and strive to do so,whether virgin or not you can have a purpose for God,"the reasons" behind your actions reflect if you are doing right or wrong.
For instance if you were to lose your virginity because some person urged you to,then that is the "wrong reason" or likewise if you stay a virgin because someone urges you to, that again is the "wrong reason",Really think on what God wants you to do and what you want from life.