Newly Divorced Christian Dad looking for encouragement
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Wife said after 11 years she is done. Although we both trust in Christ as Lord and Savior, she has said she is out. This leaves me and our 2 children devastated.
Joined to gain encouragement from my fellow Christians, as no doubt some have been down this road. So tough...
I pray for the Lord's peace to fall upon you and your family specially your children in Jesus Name. I pray that you feel His loving presence upon you and that it brings comfort and healing in your heart. Nothing is impossible for God. Claim your marriage from the grip of the enemy.
Give your burdens to Jesus and find rest in Him. I believe HE can restore your marriage and take it to levels you have never seen before. I pray for a change in the atmosphere. for the Lord to cover your children. . Lord let your healing power fall upon this family in JESUS NAME. Lord I bind all that the enemy has thrown at this family and cast it in to the pits of hell in the name of Jesus. Lord I pray for the power of the BLOOD OF JESUS TO REST IN THIS MARRAIGE, FAMILY, THEIR MINDS AND CIRCUMSTANCES IN THE NAME OF JESUS. WE KNOW THAT YOU ARE VICTORY AND THAT YOU HAVE CONQUERED IT ALL. GOD MEND THE BROKEN PIECES AND PUT THEM BACK TOGETHER IN JESUS NAME.
Conitnue praying. Do not give in to the lies of the enemy. Pray with all your strength and all your power. God will never leave you neither forsake you. He is a God of restoration and rejuvenation. No matter what happens focus on love, forgiveness hope and most importantly JESUS CHRIST. Ill keep yall in prayers.
As I have said before.. I am much less lonely know than I was when I was married. Sometimes relationships get in the way of the Only relationship that is eternal. Now is the time for you to call upon the Lord with all your heart and soul. Do not waste this opportunity to know the Lord, take your refuge in the Almighty. Glorious and Mighty is he. Praise the Lord. Make your path straight with him and everything else will fall into place. It hurts horribly bad but you decide how much effort you put into your misery. Where will your priorities lead you?
3mths ago my wife go up, went out and didnt come back, she separated us, moved another guy in and totally changed.. needless, looks like divorce is on the table. I dont understand why she wont divorce me, says only separation?
Believe me, you are not alone going through this situation. Hopefully, you will be given encouragement and understanding from the other members of this site. I went down the road that you are currently traveling many years ago. I agree with you that it can be devastating especially when children are involved. Glad to have you join us. Welcome to CC.
I my name is Maria, just wanted to let you I just wanted to let you know that I feel the same, im sorry but your not alone. I keep praying every moment of my days to keep my spirit alive. I wish I had the right words to tell you the Is with us. We're just being test to see we run to run, I keep grabbing his robe when I shut my eyes so I can keep myself strong. And to tell myself everything is going to be alright because I know that the enemy love to watch us fall hard and I just don't want to give him the pleasure of destroying me. I don't know if you'll ever see this message but I dwill have you in prayers. I also pray that you have moved on just with yourself somewhat. God be with you
I've been married for 35 yrs. when we first we both felt in love for each other. But he had some baggage I wasn't where of he loved to drink beer . I didn't know after 3 yrs he was a heavy drinker, but I felt I love with him and he with me. He's 6 1/2 yrs older then I am. I was 23 he was 29 . The relationship I was in before was hell and I got myself out. But I was abuse when I was 6yrs old til I was 11 and I was angry real angry. My parents were an alcoholic they use to fist fight chase each other and I use go into my room with my break downs. Heart aches. So I had all the miserable pain anger frustration The when I met the second person my world change. He took me with 2 kids one 10 mons old n the other was 2 . And he had 3 of his own 5 8 11 he was seperated for 2 yrs but as we were living together which we were gettyto know more of each other , he wanted to have his kids tag along and I wasn't ready for that cuz I learning about him . So I prayers and after 5yrs we had a boy and we move out from new your to Florida and we both worked hard n got a home and there everything started to change he because obsessed with having too much sex. And I was already with baby number 3 altogether the baby number 4 then 5 and we had our ups and down but the my father who has his history from abandoning my family at age 11 finds his way back to my home n moves in and hell comes in he has dementia where he lashed out n that affected my marriage and he left me and I'm hurting so bad he saids he'll be home but doesn't know when n it's affecting me. All my kids are married and have a career n I have one left ready to leave in three month to go to college. I'm hurting everywhere I can think or eat right I lost about 20 pounds I'm trying to keep myself in a gym to release stress but I still broken please pray for me n him I'm distraught please .
There are a lot of hurting people out there. It sounds like you have had quite a rough life. I have prayed for God to give you a season of peace and calm. God Bless You.