Amen sister...I do not wish to flatter you with words but only to speak in truth, Peterjens words always condemn me, as i am going through the beautiful cleansing that my Lord Jesus Christ is doing in me with my addiction, He is washing me clean non stop, your words Ariel are uplifting for me because they are Godly, you speak with a gentle spirit not harsh or hard, as i said i am not flattering you with words but as a sinner who is on her journey where God has her, your words are healing and soothing to me, you are like a big sister in Christ who is helping me to move forward, am sorry Peterjens but your post sometimes make me feel like i want to run and hide, you are hard and stern but in a cold manner, you type nice words but then your coldness washes them away with your hardness, i am writing this because i am a viewer to both of your writings, and a gentle spirit with truth is a helping spirit, a guide to those who need a little help...xox...