Hi mar09,
Parental expectations: I usually say yes to whatever my mother asks me, almost like direct military orders I should obey. On rare occassions I ask her to reconsider her request if I deem it it unneccesary or wrong, but most of the time, she is reasonable.I do what she asks because it will make her happy. I had a small room which was never messy; my closet though was sometimes disorganized.. I learned to make my bed in a weird way that makes it neat for up to a week. I slide in and slide out. I was critical of how my room looked, I had a well maintained small shelf topped with aircraft models ( I collect them) and other decorations. As for looks, I don't really mind. I dislike applying facial and hair products and stuff like that, the natural soap and water gives me a clear face, thus no pimples. I have a fairly poor apetite if I stay home all day, I eat when I am hungry and can sometimes delay meals due to my apetite, but I will eventually eat well, and also eat well if I got school or outdoor work. Chores: I personally hate doing the laundry but I do dishes, rarely cook or try to cook and I took care of our pet dog. I am particularly stingy, I saved my allowances and did not really feel compelled to spend them on outside stuff...
Parental expectations: I usually say yes to whatever my mother asks me, almost like direct military orders I should obey. On rare occassions I ask her to reconsider her request if I deem it it unneccesary or wrong, but most of the time, she is reasonable.I do what she asks because it will make her happy. I had a small room which was never messy; my closet though was sometimes disorganized.. I learned to make my bed in a weird way that makes it neat for up to a week. I slide in and slide out. I was critical of how my room looked, I had a well maintained small shelf topped with aircraft models ( I collect them) and other decorations. As for looks, I don't really mind. I dislike applying facial and hair products and stuff like that, the natural soap and water gives me a clear face, thus no pimples. I have a fairly poor apetite if I stay home all day, I eat when I am hungry and can sometimes delay meals due to my apetite, but I will eventually eat well, and also eat well if I got school or outdoor work. Chores: I personally hate doing the laundry but I do dishes, rarely cook or try to cook and I took care of our pet dog. I am particularly stingy, I saved my allowances and did not really feel compelled to spend them on outside stuff...
Ok to be stingy when ur saving for something, but i hope u reserve for church offerings too. When we were catholic, we used to give loose change, and never knew the OT people gave 10% tithes. and i never heard such teaching in church either anyway. It is easier to spend than to save.