ok how do i get over this? my dad has a hat because we r like sort of Jewish (messianic), so he wears a black hat everywhere we go. i don't want to be embarrassed of him or rude but i am embarrassed when ppl look. WHAT SHOULD I DO??
There's nothing you can do, what your dealing with is a stage of life and all you can do is accept it and try as hard as you can to see the good in it and put up with the unwanted attention, it's easy to say 'get over it' but in reality that statement means absolutely nothing, it's just what gets said when nothing useful comes to mind.
Most of us, if not all can relate to having our parents do things we wish they wouldn't and it doesn't go away, but eventually you will get to a point where things level off and you will start to see it as less of an issue and eventually it might not bother you at all, the only solution is the passage of time, things that bothered me once either don't bother me now or I have learned to accept them as things I can't change and so I can deal with it better.
Try to remember things like this are a two-way street, little things about you probably bother others, it's one of the hard parts of being in a family but hopefully it's worth putting up with for the good things they bring.