I have a girlfriend, i really love her. She used to be on drugs and alcohol a lot.
We lived together for 5 months. We helped each other, spirtually.
She had to go back to London, and I had to stay here in Denmark, we said we were gonna continue the relationship, and see each other soon, latest in august, but hopefully earlier.
She was on coke 2 days ago. She hasnt been on it, 5 months.
She was very sad, and apologized, and told me everything, like how she came home at 6 am.
She says that there is one side that is spirtual and reasonable, and one side that is/wants the opposite.
The other side wants to be a dumb partygirl taking drugs and having "fun"
She has been like that, in 2014 she slept with like 8 people.
From the start I knew her, she said she liked going out, meeting people, dancing, drinking.
I now said, she has to know, or be aware of the difference between going out with friends, and having a drink, or drinking out of control. She got defensive and said "I'll think about it, but I cant now, I need positive energy"
I asked if she could please stop drinking, cause that like gives more chances of the other side coming out of her.
She said "My best friends birthday is in 2 days, and then i also have to drink saturday for her actual birthday party. And there is this festival with my sister im going to in mid-june. But I dont have to drink that much"
And i was saying "just please stop drinking, you need it, to become spirtual and look inside of yourself, to be aware"
and she said "ill not drink at all July. Dry july. Pleased?"
And I was like "dont please me, please yourself"
its like she doesnt realize alcohol is a problem. . .
Where she lives (In london) it is seemed as "cool" and "fun" i guess.
What Do I do? Please, PLEASE tell me..
We lived together for 5 months. We helped each other, spirtually.
She had to go back to London, and I had to stay here in Denmark, we said we were gonna continue the relationship, and see each other soon, latest in august, but hopefully earlier.
She was on coke 2 days ago. She hasnt been on it, 5 months.
She was very sad, and apologized, and told me everything, like how she came home at 6 am.
She says that there is one side that is spirtual and reasonable, and one side that is/wants the opposite.
The other side wants to be a dumb partygirl taking drugs and having "fun"
She has been like that, in 2014 she slept with like 8 people.
From the start I knew her, she said she liked going out, meeting people, dancing, drinking.
I now said, she has to know, or be aware of the difference between going out with friends, and having a drink, or drinking out of control. She got defensive and said "I'll think about it, but I cant now, I need positive energy"
I asked if she could please stop drinking, cause that like gives more chances of the other side coming out of her.
She said "My best friends birthday is in 2 days, and then i also have to drink saturday for her actual birthday party. And there is this festival with my sister im going to in mid-june. But I dont have to drink that much"
And i was saying "just please stop drinking, you need it, to become spirtual and look inside of yourself, to be aware"
and she said "ill not drink at all July. Dry july. Pleased?"
And I was like "dont please me, please yourself"
its like she doesnt realize alcohol is a problem. . .
Where she lives (In london) it is seemed as "cool" and "fun" i guess.
What Do I do? Please, PLEASE tell me..