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I am saying this, and hope it does not seem as gossip. I shared in a previous thread posting that a friend, someone i was kinda fond of in a way before in a dating way..she's confessed to me her 'crush/love' for a gay woman. This is a gal who is supposed to be a follower of the Lord Jesus Christ mind you. I am not perfect, but i do not feel it would be right to simply be quiet and let her just go down this path without warning her, in love of course and not being proud but out of concern for her. We stayed friends albeit she has kinda avoided me, and i feel now it's because i've done what i can to live for God and she's been running from that perhaps is one good reason why she's avoided me. She was afraid to tell me but i haven't judged her, she knows the Bible teaches against it. But was trying to justify her actions by saying, Would a loving God turn his back on me for choosing to love? I responded by saying i know that homosexuality isn't an easy topic and many harp on it and only it and there is no easy explanation as to why one feels this way. I know she dated one guy who called her out for being overweight and its been an issue for her since then, even when she met me she kept her walls up. I have tried to be a friend to this gal still in all this,before knowing she was going this route an assumed the best when i saw facebook posts with her and a girl who is obviously trying to dress and look butch next to her. I assumed maybe they were just friends of maybe she just wasn't a feminine girl and was still straight. So..my thing is, do i keep my mouth shut? Which i do not think is right, or do i risk her running to the hills, which will probably happen honestly..but tell her the truth so her blood is not on my hands? I think i answered my question, but i am trying to find a way, if i get a chance..to talk to her about this..i just think she is very insecure and has had her walls up with men for so long that she never gives herself a chance to open up with a guy, that she was 'easy pickings' for this lesbian girl due to being very insecure. Make sense?