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Okay, I don't really even know where to start.
I guess life is just getting on top of us. My Husband (who is the most patient person I know) finally lost it tonight. Recently, I've noticed he has been getting easily frustrated.
Without going on and on, there have been some issues we have been dealing with, that have just been dragging out for months on end now. Every time we think they are resolved, they just get bigger. It's human nature to get frustrated when things don't work out, but we've been trying to do things as Jesus would have us do them, and respond in the right way. The more we do that, it seems, the more the world just walks all over us. He left me standing at the train station in the pouring rain tonight (after I had called him 10 mins earlier to let him know my arrival time), because he was overwhelmed...(long story)...
Tonight, my Husband got so frustrated he actually got angry. He stressed himself out to a state I've never seen him in before, and actually told me he is not happy in life and would rather not live.
I'm at a loss as to how to help him. The problems affect both of us, but there are just no simple answers to solve them, they are the kind of situations you find yourself in where regardless of the choice you make, you still lose out.
I guess I'm just asking for some prayer for my husband, to help him calm down a little, and also for his faith. He has been telling me for sometime now, (when things go wrong) that he wonders where God is in all of it? He thinks God isn't helping us (and it's not through lack of asking), I just think we need some clarity, and guidance.
I'm confused myself, and having him stressed out only stresses me out.
I have no idea if any of that make sense, but if you can please pray...you may not understand, but God does!
I guess life is just getting on top of us. My Husband (who is the most patient person I know) finally lost it tonight. Recently, I've noticed he has been getting easily frustrated.
Without going on and on, there have been some issues we have been dealing with, that have just been dragging out for months on end now. Every time we think they are resolved, they just get bigger. It's human nature to get frustrated when things don't work out, but we've been trying to do things as Jesus would have us do them, and respond in the right way. The more we do that, it seems, the more the world just walks all over us. He left me standing at the train station in the pouring rain tonight (after I had called him 10 mins earlier to let him know my arrival time), because he was overwhelmed...(long story)...
Tonight, my Husband got so frustrated he actually got angry. He stressed himself out to a state I've never seen him in before, and actually told me he is not happy in life and would rather not live.
I'm at a loss as to how to help him. The problems affect both of us, but there are just no simple answers to solve them, they are the kind of situations you find yourself in where regardless of the choice you make, you still lose out.
I guess I'm just asking for some prayer for my husband, to help him calm down a little, and also for his faith. He has been telling me for sometime now, (when things go wrong) that he wonders where God is in all of it? He thinks God isn't helping us (and it's not through lack of asking), I just think we need some clarity, and guidance.
I'm confused myself, and having him stressed out only stresses me out.
I have no idea if any of that make sense, but if you can please pray...you may not understand, but God does!