Hi, I am going with my fiance to hospital tomorrow (Thursday 28th) his stroke doctor phoned him today and wants to do a w few tests to see if he is fit to drive. We both feel he wont pass it due to his eye condition. Rod has suffered with double vision in one eye for years, since childhood when he use to hold his hand over his eye and it caused double vision.
He has drove all his life and had no issues, as he lived with it, its in one eye. This is going to be an awful day for us, as we know they will say he cant drive any more we think. Everything is turning against us. We both have issues, I have bad foot issues. and he gets frustrated with his brain issues after the stroke. We seem to clash at times. I worry he will get dementia in the long term, I had a dream that he was like a mad man, which scared me, that I couldnt cope. I feel so depressed at times, I feel unhappy with the thought of my partner being really depressed if he cant drive anymore.
It seems that everything is so hard. I use to go in the car and just walk alittle, now I dont think this will happen.
Please pray that the doc treats him well, and treats anything medically that needs treating. I feel Rod hasnt had the proper care. I pray that Rod is truthful with his symptoms then everything will be in the open.
Everything is hard for myself also. I feel im only 48 but yet I feel its so hard life. This stroke has come between us in so many ways. I use to relay on him, now i Look after him. We are there for each other, But its hard. I have none to talk to also, we have no neighbours that ask how we are, its such a lonely life. I need cheering up.Thats why i come on here and pray for others it helps my spirit.
He has drove all his life and had no issues, as he lived with it, its in one eye. This is going to be an awful day for us, as we know they will say he cant drive any more we think. Everything is turning against us. We both have issues, I have bad foot issues. and he gets frustrated with his brain issues after the stroke. We seem to clash at times. I worry he will get dementia in the long term, I had a dream that he was like a mad man, which scared me, that I couldnt cope. I feel so depressed at times, I feel unhappy with the thought of my partner being really depressed if he cant drive anymore.
It seems that everything is so hard. I use to go in the car and just walk alittle, now I dont think this will happen.
Please pray that the doc treats him well, and treats anything medically that needs treating. I feel Rod hasnt had the proper care. I pray that Rod is truthful with his symptoms then everything will be in the open.
Everything is hard for myself also. I feel im only 48 but yet I feel its so hard life. This stroke has come between us in so many ways. I use to relay on him, now i Look after him. We are there for each other, But its hard. I have none to talk to also, we have no neighbours that ask how we are, its such a lonely life. I need cheering up.Thats why i come on here and pray for others it helps my spirit.