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Ok. Long story short...
My husband and I had problems in the past with how he was interacting with a lady friend on a social media site.
After a short time of prayer, we began marital counseling, where we discussed what was appropriate interaction and where to draw the line with "friendships" both online and off. This was 2 years ago. We haven't had any problems since then.
I recently discovered a secret email account of my husbands, included were several email interactions between him and another man... quite inapproriate emails...
I'm not sure how to even approach this with him. I've been praying about it for the whole week since I've found out.... I am torn. I feel like, especially since we've been through all this counseling and had made things very clear, set our boundaries. I believe that any sexual interaction, even if it's just talking sexually online, is adultery. He knows, and agrees with this.
Part of me wants to call it quits and get a divorce, Part of me feels like this is just something I have to deal with, because this is the man I married, for thick and thin. All of me is very tired of all the secrets, lies, and betrayal.
Advice...
Please, and I mean no offense or to come off sounding rude, but, no commenting on whether or not what he is doing is wrong or right, or that i'm overreacting... none of that matters due to the fact that he already knew where we draw the line, how I feel about all this and ect... it doesn't change how I feel or make the hurt any less.
What i'm really looking for is where to go from here...
My husband and I had problems in the past with how he was interacting with a lady friend on a social media site.
After a short time of prayer, we began marital counseling, where we discussed what was appropriate interaction and where to draw the line with "friendships" both online and off. This was 2 years ago. We haven't had any problems since then.
I recently discovered a secret email account of my husbands, included were several email interactions between him and another man... quite inapproriate emails...
I'm not sure how to even approach this with him. I've been praying about it for the whole week since I've found out.... I am torn. I feel like, especially since we've been through all this counseling and had made things very clear, set our boundaries. I believe that any sexual interaction, even if it's just talking sexually online, is adultery. He knows, and agrees with this.
Part of me wants to call it quits and get a divorce, Part of me feels like this is just something I have to deal with, because this is the man I married, for thick and thin. All of me is very tired of all the secrets, lies, and betrayal.
Advice...
Please, and I mean no offense or to come off sounding rude, but, no commenting on whether or not what he is doing is wrong or right, or that i'm overreacting... none of that matters due to the fact that he already knew where we draw the line, how I feel about all this and ect... it doesn't change how I feel or make the hurt any less.
What i'm really looking for is where to go from here...