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Wow, what a blessing! I was just thinking about this topic, no joke, 10 minutes ago! I'm 15 now, and I haven't had my first kiss yet- I've never even dated seriously. And, sometimes, I think I'm really weird (everybody else has, etc.) but then I remember it doesn't even matter what the world thinks! I don't actually have a purity ring, but it's important to me. I'm saving myself for the one God has in store for me! It might be hard, but it's worth it!
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I've got mixed feelings when it comes to dating... I mean, yes, I want love- who doesn't? But if I just dive right into a relationship, and he's not "The One", then there's just going to be heartbreak! So I'm trying to wait... Just out of curiousity, how do you think you'll know who the person God has in store for you is? Love at first sight? Or something subtle?
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well the guy I currently like and want to date I have know for almost a year and a half.
it started off as just a friendship, then I started to really like him, and then I went through a book where I am not supposed to date for 6months while I get closer to God so I focused on God for a while... and then the closer I got to God the more I fell for him... so right now I am actually debating with myself and God if he is the one and should ask him to be my courting partner when the last of my 6months is up (I still have about 1 and 1/2 months to go) my only problem is that we live in diff states and I do not want to ask him to be my courting partner until I meet him in person, which could be the soonest a year from now. I am willing to wait because I know if he is the one God has for me it will be totally worth it.
but I think that as long as you are close to God and keep Him number 1 in your life, He will let you know when the right one comes along.
it started off as just a friendship, then I started to really like him, and then I went through a book where I am not supposed to date for 6months while I get closer to God so I focused on God for a while... and then the closer I got to God the more I fell for him... so right now I am actually debating with myself and God if he is the one and should ask him to be my courting partner when the last of my 6months is up (I still have about 1 and 1/2 months to go) my only problem is that we live in diff states and I do not want to ask him to be my courting partner until I meet him in person, which could be the soonest a year from now. I am willing to wait because I know if he is the one God has for me it will be totally worth it.
but I think that as long as you are close to God and keep Him number 1 in your life, He will let you know when the right one comes along.
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I agree completely, and I admire your attitude toward staying pure. Some people tend to look at it like a burden, when it is truly a blessing. Once your virginity is gone, there's no getting it back. (Obviously) :] That's why I think it should only be exchanged between husband and wife. That way, when the moment comes, it is new to both of them. Neither will be intimidated by the other's experience, because both of them saved it for eachother. A friend of mine also made a good point once... that you can eventually become numb to the beauty of sex if you have experienced it with multiple partners before you found "the one". People really should consider things like that, for the sake of themselves, and for their future husband/wife.