I'm a fashionista myself! And this is my only rule to my clothing... "If ur clothing is a frame for ur face from which th glory of Christ springs forth, it is of God. But if ur clothing is a frame for ur body, it is sensual (arousing gratification of th senses and physical, sexual pleasure), and God hates it! " quote form Mrs. Paul Washer
Elders can be clueless on fashion trends (I receive some critics on my crazy trendsetter ideas w/ clothes, hair, etc.) but I do cool down for them. Why? because they're an elder,
1 Timothy 5:1-2 - "Rebuke not an elder, but intreat [him] as a father; [and] the younger men as brethren.." The way we look does mattr to God as well or He would had not changed Adam and Eve's fig leave outfits. I always think about what I'm wearing and if it glorifies God (and then if it's totally in style and cute
) Because we r to glorify Him in everything we do...
U should nevr change anything as a Christian for acceptance of othrs, only God's acceptance of u and what u do mattrs. We change for Him only
Hope my advise helps some