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I've been with my girlfriend going on 7 months; Granted we've had our problems, we've always worked them out. Her dream is to join the Army & to become a surgeon (I support her 100%) & i've always been there for her to give her encouragement & to help her in anyway I can. She'll be leaving in around 7 months & I may never see her again & if I do, it may only be once or twice a year. I made a huge decision in my life to join her in the Army, not only to be with her but to better myself by doing something positive in life & bettering myself all around. The Army has a marriage program where a married couple will be able to live together on base & be around eachother often.
We've discussed this many times over the last few weeks & got all of our feelings out in the open; However, she's uncertain about whether to go through with marriage or not. I have my doubts aswell but I also know this may be our only chance to be together & not lose eachother. It's so hard for me hanging on to her knowing that I may just end up losing her in 7 months, it's really taking it's toll on me. She's stated that she's unsure about marriage & that she wants to enjoy life before settling down (I can understand this) & i'd be really selfish to try & get her to do something that she's not 100% into.
She tells me everyday how much she loves & cares about me, I tell her the same...it's just hard going through each day with those feelings knowing that in 7 months, it could very well be the end. Please pray for us that we may both find our way in this hectic situation & any advice will be very much appreciated. God bless.
We've discussed this many times over the last few weeks & got all of our feelings out in the open; However, she's uncertain about whether to go through with marriage or not. I have my doubts aswell but I also know this may be our only chance to be together & not lose eachother. It's so hard for me hanging on to her knowing that I may just end up losing her in 7 months, it's really taking it's toll on me. She's stated that she's unsure about marriage & that she wants to enjoy life before settling down (I can understand this) & i'd be really selfish to try & get her to do something that she's not 100% into.
She tells me everyday how much she loves & cares about me, I tell her the same...it's just hard going through each day with those feelings knowing that in 7 months, it could very well be the end. Please pray for us that we may both find our way in this hectic situation & any advice will be very much appreciated. God bless.