Ah, ye ole hubby's church. That's different. Leaving is one of those things that needs to be negotiated in marriage. (LOL I really have been telling you how much talking is needed in marriage, haven't I? It just keeps happening. lol) But which church is always under submit for wives. Ultimately, his decision, but not without hearing from us.
I really can't tell you what your talents are. That's one of those "when I see it, I'll know it" things, and since I can't see you in every day world, I can't see when you hit upon one that just fits you.
But I can guess one by the job you chose to do. Nursing? Yeesh! Not my talent at all. (Thank you, Lord, for variety in talents.) But, I suspect you'd be good at mercy ministry. You really are compassionate. (Have to be to stay a nurse for more than a week. Plus, I see that on here.)
And, don't sell yourself short on teaching either. You're Mom, right? It comes with the job description. I don't know if you have the office of teacher, but you probably have the gift of teaching. Have you ever convinced your kids to act right through your words? If you have, that's the kernel of gifted in that. It might not be your 10,000 talent ministry, but it might be your 2,000 talent ministry.