Recognizing what God has already blessed you with. ..a family. I pray that my daughter and the father of her children reconcile for their children, who love them both. Each keep looking for love and attention elsewhere, but never seem happy. I pray they realize what's right in front of them. ..eachother and repair their family situation for their kids, and at same time mend their relationship that had years ago been destroyed by cheating. Although they where never married, they stayed living together for the kids. They need realize what's right in front of them, instead looking for love and attention elsewhere they need to open their eyes and see what they've been searching for has been right in front of them the whole time. God blessed them with children, they all live in same house, they just need to forgive eachother, get along and be the family I feel they where meant to be.