sex before marriage is a sin

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Falcon1990

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if you have sex before marriage(like many people do today) then you are forniciating and if you dont stop and repent then you will go to hell.

For this you know,[a] that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. Ephesians 5:5


Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals,[a] nor sodomites, 1 Corinthians 6:9
 
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Well i guess this will be mans last generation because we cant get married an cant have sex if where not married so no more children ever guys...... an just going around having sex with a bunch of people is fornicating an is a sin.. having sex withsomeone you love an r in a long term relationship with isnt exspeciallly if you consider your self married because when two people consider themselfs married an concemate it with sex thwn your married in gods eyes no legal paper requierf.
 
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So i kinda half way agree with gou on this one.
 

Agricola

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So basically non-believers who sin go to hell.... I did not know that.
 
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Falcon1990

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So basically non-believers who sin go to hell.... I did not know that.
unbelievers go to hell (atheists for instance)
But the cowardly, unbelieving,[a] abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.” Revelation 21:8
 
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if you have sex before marriage(like many people do today) then you are forniciating and if you dont stop and repent then you will go to hell.

For this you know,[a] that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. Ephesians 5:5


Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals,[a] nor sodomites, 1 Corinthians 6:9
Matthew 5:28But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

So have you ever had done this? If you have, do you want forgiveness or judgement?

Matthew 7:2
For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
 
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There is so much misinformation and misunderstanding about the truth of what sex is that even Christians who obey God in regard to sex haven't a clue why.

Sex has such profound and deep meanings that only God understands the full implications of it. If any of you take the time to read all the verses in the bible with the word harlot in it, it gives some indication. For us, it is the physical means by which a male and female become one in marriage. When we become one with someone, it takes in a lot of sharing and working together.

How the world treats sex and how they understand it is a caricature of sex. Some say that marriage is personal, that government shouldn't be involved. Scripture says we are to submit to authority. Usually, when couples tell each other that they don't need to make a legal commitment it means they don't really mean the spiritual commitment. It makes divorce easy, they think. God allows for divorce because of our humanness, but it is serious.

When the bible talks of willful sin we don't repent of and ask forgiveness for, it talks of sin resulting in death. I guess it means the same thing as "you will go to hell", but I like the biblical explanation better.
 

starfield

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1 Cor 6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
1 Cor 6:19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
1 Cor 6:20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.

 

maxwel

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Falcon,

I really think you're preaching in the wrong place.

If you go to a bar, almost everyone there is looking for premarital sex.
That's the place to go.

You should go to a bar,
where you're REALLY needed,
and just tell the people they're all going to hell.

That's where you'd do the most good.

Pick any bar, and just go in and tell everyone they're going to hell.

I'm sure your ministry will get much more attention than here,
and you'll have extraordinary discussions with people.
 

homwardbound

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if you have sex before marriage(like many people do today) then you are forniciating and if you dont stop and repent then you will go to hell.

For this you know,[a] that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. Ephesians 5:5


Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals,[a] nor sodomites, 1 Corinthians 6:9
No man in and of himself can quit any fleshly acts of self desire through one's puberty and leads ot not only harm oneself but others along the way. And because of the flesh not caring and only will care for those that care for them, just can't see this.
so God brought in the Law that is just, true holy and perfectly correct. Now when it flowed or flows thorugh any flesh and blood we become quilty are not able to perform, not perfectly ever.
So God in God's Mercy over sacrifice, gave the ultimate sacrifice of his Son to give Mercy to all those that believe and those that have recieved Mercy give Mercy and agianst such is no Law. The Law of Love is Mercy and one will not do those things that you spoke of as being harsh.
The believers appreciate what God has done for them in advance before any of us here were ever born, and our response is thank you so deeply and praising so much for this amazing gift that there is no time for sin consciousness as was iin the Old Testament having to sacrifice year after year to be clean.
Those days are over and if one wants to live righteously, the only way is through Christ. We as beleivers are no more that partakers of his righteousness in the Spirit of given to us by the resurrected Christ to those that believe and God has approved knowing what is in our hearts, whether pure or of their own desire. for this is how we will be judged by our motive(s)
And prostitutes will enter in before the self righteous ones
[h=3]Matthew 21:28-32[/h]King James Version (KJV)

[SUP]28 [/SUP]But what think ye? A certain man had two sons; and he came to the first, and said, Son, go work to day in my vineyard.
[SUP]29 [/SUP]He answered and said, I will not: but afterward he repented, and went.
[SUP]30 [/SUP]And he came to the second, and said likewise. And he answered and said, I go, sir: and went not.
[SUP]31 [/SUP]Whether of them twain did the will of his father? They say unto him, The first. Jesus saith unto them, Verily I say unto you, That the publicans and the harlots go into the kingdom of God before you.
[SUP]32 [/SUP]For John came unto you in the way of righteousness, and ye believed him not: but the publicans and the harlots believed him: and ye, when ye had seen it, repented not afterward, that ye might believe him.
 

homwardbound

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unbelievers go to hell (atheists for instance)
But the cowardly, unbelieving,[a] abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.” Revelation 21:8
So would this not include the self-righteous that masquerade and callon God's name in front of others, but their hearts being far from him as was the religous leaders of his day
 

notuptome

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So would this not include the self-righteous that masquerade and callon God's name in front of others, but their hearts being far from him as was the religous leaders of his day
Would that be like the ones in John 8:3-11?

For the cause of Christ
Roger
 

Petals

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LOL!!!! This is a very good point cos there are so many single folk on cc so if the 'no sex before marriage' rule applies to all these folk & to all the folk that aren't married to their partner, then there's a very good chance we will end up being man's last generation!! Humans are gonna become extinct cos no one is getting married!! Lol!!!

Well i guess this will be mans last generation because we cant get married an cant have sex if where not married so no more children ever guys...... an just going around having sex with a bunch of people is fornicating an is a sin.. having sex withsomeone you love an r in a long term relationship with isnt exspeciallly if you consider your self married because when two people consider themselfs married an concemate it with sex thwn your married in gods eyes no legal paper requierf.
 
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LOL!!!! This is a very good point cos there are so many single folk on cc so if the 'no sex before marriage' rule applies to all these folk & to all the folk that aren't married to their partner, then there's a very good chance we will end up being man's last generation!! Humans are gonna become extinct cos no one is getting married!! Lol!!!
You are pointing out the terrible seriousness of our current way of life. People actually think that they are on their own without God, but no one is without God. God and what He is, how He created the world is how it is for everyone. People can't create sex or marriage, it was done by God. I don't think that God is looking at the piece of paper that married people have, but that piece of paper is a sign of something profound.

People say they have redefined all of it. There are porn sites on the net making a mockery of all the meaning of it. I don't think they know at all what they are really doing, and if they did they would be horrified.
 
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The problem has been a lack of faith in Jesus. This is because Christians today focus on politics and demanding everyone behave instead of actually preaching the Gospel of Salvation, they demand social conservatism through legislation, and they use corrupt politicians who like war.

No one was saved through legislation and social conservatism.
 

homwardbound

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Would that be like the ones in John 8:3-11?

For the cause of Christ
Roger
Yeah unless they repent and ask for Mercy as
[h=3]Luke 18:9-14[/h]New King James Version (NKJV)

[h=3]The Parable of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector[/h][SUP]9 [/SUP]Also He spoke this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and despised others: [SUP]10 [/SUP]“Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. [SUP]11 [/SUP]The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, ‘God, I thank You that I am not like other men—extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this tax collector. [SUP]12 [/SUP]I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I possess.’ [SUP]13 [/SUP]And the tax collector, standing afar off, would not so much as raise his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me a sinner!’ [SUP]14 [/SUP]I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other; for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.”
 
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jennymae

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unbelievers go to hell (atheists for instance)
But the cowardly, unbelieving,[a] abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.” Revelation 21:8
Now why should a fornicator and a murderer be punished in the same way and "have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone...?" Or are you talking about different parts of the lake of fire? Are some parts better than other parts? Would a murderer get to an even hotter part of the lake, while the fornicator should do his or hern eternal time in a more chilly bay of the lake? I think we've got a problem whenever somebody is condamning others and tells them no matter the sin you are going straight to Hell! And I got to add: I'd rather be the neighbor of a non repenting fornicator than the neighbor of a repenting mass murderer.
 
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Falcon1990

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There is so much misinformation and misunderstanding about the truth of what sex is that even Christians who obey God in regard to sex haven't a clue why.

Sex has such profound and deep meanings that only God understands the full implications of it. If any of you take the time to read all the verses in the bible with the word harlot in it, it gives some indication. For us, it is the physical means by which a male and female become one in marriage. When we become one with someone, it takes in a lot of sharing and working together.

How the world treats sex and how they understand it is a caricature of sex. Some say that marriage is personal, that government shouldn't be involved. Scripture says we are to submit to authority. Usually, when couples tell each other that they don't need to make a legal commitment it means they don't really mean the spiritual commitment. It makes divorce easy, they think. God allows for divorce because of our humanness, but it is serious.

When the bible talks of willful sin we don't repent of and ask forgiveness for, it talks of sin resulting in death. I guess it means the same thing as "you will go to hell", but I like the biblical explanation better.
it doesn't matter how "culture" changes the world today, what we have to do is just keep putting trust into scripture. Scripture does not change unless God adds to it and as far as i know nothing has changed since the New testament was written .So if you fornicate before marriage then you are sinning, and it doesn't matter what culture says, even it is "standard" in culture today.
 
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Falcon1990

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Falcon,

I really think you're preaching in the wrong place.

If you go to a bar, almost everyone there is looking for premarital sex.
That's the place to go.

You should go to a bar,
where you're REALLY needed,
and just tell the people they're all going to hell.

That's where you'd do the most good.

Pick any bar, and just go in and tell everyone they're going to hell.

I'm sure your ministry will get much more attention than here,
and you'll have extraordinary discussions with people.
it doesn't matter where i preach, i mean this is a christian based website right?
 
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Falcon1990

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LOL!!!! This is a very good point cos there are so many single folk on cc so if the 'no sex before marriage' rule applies to all these folk & to all the folk that aren't married to their partner, then there's a very good chance we will end up being man's last generation!! Humans are gonna become extinct cos no one is getting married!! Lol!!!
well i think most people wait until marriage to have children today, so those people wouldn't go to hell at least for fornicating since they are married. But people who fornicate outside of marriage still sin.