Glad you have not left yet !!!
I know things can get heated on here some times because of the attitudes of some, but do not be discouraged we are not all that way.
Another said go to the Speak your Mind thread which is a good ideal, and another is any thread that has law, works, grace, legalist, and verses in the title stay clear of them to because it is pretty assured their will be disputes in them.
If you do wish to sick answers there is a few of us that don't mind PM's to share the word !!!