In the last month I have gotten myself into quite a fix.
My insecurities has led me to fear abondonment from a friend, and so I wanted to be the center of his world. As a result I have driven him away, which is what I feared the most. I was so afraid that I was the least important so by constantly trying to make myself the center of his universe he ran away. I do not know how to make ammends after driving this person crazy with my constant presence.
On the other hand, I have friend who is driving me mad, he calls and expects me to stay on the phone for hours, and I can not even chat in the lounge without him PMing me over and over again. I don't know how to tell this person to stop. I am feeling harassed but do not want to hurt his feelings. I am feeling rather stalked.
I now know how I made my friend feel because someone is now doing this to me. I pray about it, but I don't have the courage to speak up. If anyone has any advice it would be appreciated. Thank you.
My insecurities has led me to fear abondonment from a friend, and so I wanted to be the center of his world. As a result I have driven him away, which is what I feared the most. I was so afraid that I was the least important so by constantly trying to make myself the center of his universe he ran away. I do not know how to make ammends after driving this person crazy with my constant presence.
On the other hand, I have friend who is driving me mad, he calls and expects me to stay on the phone for hours, and I can not even chat in the lounge without him PMing me over and over again. I don't know how to tell this person to stop. I am feeling harassed but do not want to hurt his feelings. I am feeling rather stalked.
I now know how I made my friend feel because someone is now doing this to me. I pray about it, but I don't have the courage to speak up. If anyone has any advice it would be appreciated. Thank you.