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Sorry, but yeah when I'm talking about a girlfriend I'm talking about a girl I can eventually marry. I am looking for a wife.
As for saying 30's is old. Let me just put it this way, I want to be married around 25.
As for the reasons why I want a wife... They are listed here in the 1st post...
http://christianchat.com/christian-...-real-reasons-youre-looking-husband-wife.html
As for saying 30's is old. Let me just put it this way, I want to be married around 25.
As for the reasons why I want a wife... They are listed here in the 1st post...
http://christianchat.com/christian-...-real-reasons-youre-looking-husband-wife.html
You admit your selfish, well, marriage is 100% about selfLESS. If you're going to enter a marriage selfishly you can pretty much count on not staying married.
Obsessive is how you come across about the whole topic. Your posts all sound the same. And chances are you comes across desperate to women. Which is a major turn off. Also, they probably can tell you're 'on the prowl' and women often sense that and it can be a turn off as well.
While we all have things we would like in a spouse, requiring she have your interests is going to make it harder. Especially when you expect women to like video games. (and yes, ladies, i know some women like video games, but the majority don't, so spare me the lecture).
You don't seem to be getting the idea of waiting on God. When God brings you the right person, its not going to be because you practiced your social skills, or because you pressured your friends into setting you up, or because you went to church to meet chicks. Your shyness won't matter. All these things you're saying are helps or hinderances aren't going to matter. The only things that will matter are your walk with God, and you having a TRUE understanding of marriage and that it requires of you to be a man and a husband.
All in all right now i just see someone who has their own plans, their own timing, and seems to be impatient and irritated that things aren't happening on their time.
Lastly, you seem to lack sensitivity to others. The 'don't want to end up like others on here...' comment i found quite offensive and i'm sure there will be others who agree. Its a derogatory attitude and shows you look down on people in that position. I'm sure you'll say thats not true, but that is exactly what that means.
Really i'm not trying to be critical or mean. Just trying to point out some things you may not be seeing yourself, as i'm on the outside of the situation and can spot things you can't. Hopefully you'll hear what i'm saying and think about it as opposed to just getting offended.